Dear Men

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Building the man you’re meant to be.

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Channel Name	Dear Men
Username	@dear_m_e_n
Category	Dating
Language	English
Country	United States
Members	8,322
Channel Type	Public Channel
Created	Apr 5, 2026
Last Updated	Sep 17, 2026 • 9 days ago
Status	Active

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

Dear men,

With girls, unless you love pain, never:
1. Overexplain yourself
2. Beg them for anything
3. Whine about things to her
4. Engage in arguments with her
5. Force her to make the decisions
Remember this list, it might save you one day.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

Be the man who tries even after failure, frustration, disappointment, exhaustion, and heartache. Master the courage to believe that a new attempt can manifest a new outcome.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

Man to man:

Have standards. Have discipline. Have self-respect. Have goals. Have patience. Have integrity. Most problems disappear when you become a better man.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

SEPTEMBER CHALLENGE:

1. Drink Water only
2. No junk food (chips, candy)
3. 6-8 hours of sleep nightly
4. Workout at least 4x per week
5. Walk for at least 20 mins 3x per week
6. 10k steps daily
7. Pray every morning before you check phone
8. Spend at least 20 mins outside 1x per week
9. Daily Journal of at least three good things from your day
10. Practice gratitude daily

Who's in?

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

One day, the things keeping you awake today will become stories you barely remember. Keep going. This season won't last forever.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

Rule number one: Never be ashamed of what make you money. The goal is to survive, not to impress.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

Peak male life experiences;

• Waking before dawn while the world still sleeps.
• Training when your body says no.
• Earning in silence, flexing through results.
• Sitting in peace with no need to prove anything.
• Walking away from chaos without a word.
• Loyalty that can't be bought or shaken.
• A woman who respects your purpose, not just your presence.
• Building something that'll outlive your name.
• Looking in the mirror and seeing discipline not luck.
• Knowing you became the man you once needed.

As a man, never stay at home. That's why you're depressed.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

If you want to win in life as a man, aim to BE BORING.

- Quit porn
- Quit alcohol
- Quit stupid habits
- Go to the gym
- Take your vitamins
- Take your proteins
- Drink water
- Eat fruits
- Avoid medicine unless it's necessary antibiotics.
- Meal prep every Sunday
- Eat your home-cooked meals
- Walk 8,000–12,000 steps a day
- Plan your day the night before
- Say NO to things that drain your energy

When life feels lifeless, check your lifestyle.

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Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

Get a haircut every 2 weeks to stay sharp, wait 5 secs before answering the phone to control the rhythm, always arrive 15 mins early, stay away from free lunches, never talk about people who aren't in the room, and when anger rises, wait 10 mins before reacting. These habits may look rigid, but they're the hidden discipline of the elite.

2,9100071

Dear Men

Sep 08, 2026, 22:22

To all men in employment, what is the biggest lesson your employer has taught you?

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

You're a man:

Stop worrying about your looks.

- Hit the gym.
- Get a clean hair cut.
- Buy simple, well-fitting clothes.

Focus more on building your confidence

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

Your coworkers are not your friends.

– Avoid gossip.
– Don’t brag.
– Do your job.
– Get paid.
– Go home.

Protect your privacy like it’s gold.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

Half of male depression is solved by getting in shape. The other half is solved by having a mission.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

The day you stop putting everyone on a pedestal is the day conversations become easy.

You're not being judged.

You're just meeting another human.

See where it goes.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

Men,
Always remember sex is cheap, and anyone can get it.

Don't settle with low a value woman who has nothing to offer.

The goal is to settle with a woman of virtue and dignity

Woman who has a good reputation

Choose a good woman for your children.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

Man to man

• Get filthy rich when young
• Stay fit
• Buy 10,000+ acres of land
• Take over 7+ cities with businesses
• Horses in the stable
• Learn how to shoot
• Have a professional fight
• Raise 20+ children
• Live in a cabin in the woods.

Pure happiness for you.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

You've gotta be more afraid of wasting your life than embarrassing yourself. Embarrassment fades in days. The memory of something cringe disappears faster than you think and nobody is replaying it as much as you are. But a wasted life does not fade. The chances you never took, the things you never said, the version of yourself you never became because you were too worried about how it looked - that sits with you. Flip the fear. The embarrassment was never the real danger. Staying small was.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED DISCUSS..

1. Bills
2. Parenting styles
3. Credit & Debt
4. Religion
5. How to deal with family
6. Childhood traumas
7. Sexual expectations
8. Family health history
9. Dream home
10. Careers and education

3,6900062

Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

NEVERRRRRR underestimate how much God is protecting you from things you don’t even know about.

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Dear Men

Aug 25, 2026, 00:35

As a man, lust is your first enemy to kill.

Lust destroys more than you think.

• Kills self-control.

• Steals your focus.

• Wastes your time.

• Clouds your judgment.

• Weakens discipline.

• Fuels addiction.

• Damages relationships.

• Creates guilt and regret.

• Replaces purpose with pleasure.

• Drains your confidence.

• Makes people objects, not humans.

• Keeps you stuck while life moves on.

Master your desires before they master you.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

You ain't a G until you lose it all, watch everything fall apart... Have the closest person switch up on you and still stand up, hold your head high, grind, take chances, and get it all back.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

At 24, he chose restraint.

By 26, he chose his wife.

At 27, he laid down the bottle.

At 28, he stood stronger than ever.

At 29, he embraced discipline.

At 30, he walked with quiet confidence.

At 31, he bent his knees in prayer.

By 33, others leaned on his strength.

A man is not built in moments, but in mornings like these.

Choose well today. You are becoming someone tomorrow.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

Most men look calm from outside, but inside they're carrying family pressure, bills, unfinished dreams.

Bro...It will get better.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

Dear men,

You have wifi.

You have a laptop.

You have a phone.

You have no excuse.

Disappear 4 hours a day.

Cut off distractions.

Learn a high paying digital skill. It will change your life.

I promise you won't regret it.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

DARK REALITY; The Most depressed person in the family is not the mother, not the father but it's the eldest son of the family. Do you agree?

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

Get a haircut every two weeks and watch your confidence skyrocket.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

Men listen,

Be rich. But never talk about money. Be fit. But never talk about working out. Be sharp. But never mention books. You're a man. Never let excitement make you announce things prematurely. Stay low-key and move silently. you'll never regret it.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

Avoid having sexual relations with your colleagues. Don't even date at work guys. I beg you.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

Men are the happiest when they’re building their body, making money, taking care of their family, and owning a Mercedes-Benz.

An idle man is a depressed man.

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Dear Men

May 23, 2026, 22:07

As a man, If your family depends on you, don't play the same game with men without responsibilities. Wake up early. Connect with people. Do whatever it takes to get rich. It's your only way out.

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